No one is ever a victim, although your conquerors would have you believe in your own victimhood. How else could they conquer you? In the biggest Book of Existence and in the Book of Earth, there are no victims, only those who forget they are creators and who choose fear, forget love, and separate themselves. It is the same story with different players, again and again. Actually, in the broader picture it is the same story with the same players again and again. Family of Light: Pleiadian Tales and Lessons in Living by Barbara Marciniak
When we remember who we are, who we innately were born to become, the reason why we are here, we begin to see the power we have. Each one of us has the power to create their own world. Each and every day our choices create the world we live in. We may not always be conscious of our choices, but we always have a choice.
One of the choices I made a while ago was to stop playing the victim role. I could produce a long list of reasons, examples and atrocities that would qualify me to identify with that label. There was a time in my life I played the role. Then there was the time I decided it was time to put that role down and realize that everything happens for me. I may not understand the reason why at the time, but it always ends up benefitting me in some way or another. I learn. I grow. I experience all that life has to offer. I gain empathy, compassion, and experience.
Lately, I have begun to take things deeper in seeing the cycle that leads to the actions others take. When we take a step back, we begin to see the bigger picture and how the root is a lack of love and the solution is love. And forgetting love is what led to the fear and separation in the first place.
The real secret though is remembering and finding the love inside of ourselves. We are programmed to search for it outside from a plethora of sources, however true love begins within and starts with yourself. When I began to truly love myself I began to appreciate all the different aspects of myself and see the true abundance all around me. With self-love we can become empowered to become creators of our own worlds. The more I love myself and find love inside of me, the more love I have to give and become more aware of all the love around me.